While addressing the students of University of Pune a few weeks back, Wipro chief Aziz Premji shared some secrets of his success. He said that for him life is an eight-lane expressway — if you use these lanes intelligently, you are bound to zoom ahead.
One of Mr Premji’s
commandments was “respond, don’t act”. It was significant to note that a
top-notch businessman like him advised students to be aware of their emotions
and to manage them. But you cannot learn this lesson in any of the management
schools; one has to learn this from life. It can be learnt if you are watchful
and observe the difference between people who react impulsively and those who
disengage themselves from their emotions and respond objectively. By reacting
emotionally, you are letting the other person control your behavior and by
using your will and reason you are looking at the issue directly.
Most people are afraid of
taking a decision because they want to avoid making mistakes. This thought is
an obstruction to both personal and professional growth because making mistakes
is an essential ingredient of learning. Osho says, “Don’t be afraid of making a
mistake, but don’t make the same mistake again. Make a new mistake!” What
people forget is that making a decision is an intuitive flash, it is a gift of
the heart. Intuition is to be in tune with oneself. And out of that tuning,
solutions arise. It is not a logical conclusion, it is a leap of consciousness.
Once your intuition has started functioning, you need not go and ask a guide
for any advice.
When the brain works in
sync with the heart you arrive at the right decision. But that also means
living dangerously.
Heed Osho’s suggestion:
“Whenever you have alternatives to choose, always choose the unknown, because
the known you have already lived. The known is known, so you will simply be
repeating it. Never miss the unknown. Always choose the unknown and go
headlong. Even if you suffer, it is worth it, it always pays off.”
The more decisive you
become, the more integrated you become. Of course there are possibilities of
going astray, but the risk is worth taking.
By going astray you will
become richer. You will be happy that you went astray, because there are many
things that can be learnt from the new experience. From all this struggle you
will emerge a winner.
But playing to win does
not mean winning all the time; it means putting all your energy with maximum
intensity. Then whatever happens, you will not be a loser.
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